Monday, October 19, 2009

this is life

Life is not always like what we want.
It is not always like what other people want.
Most of the times, people are just an irritating source of life experience.
However, remember this:
if you are irritated because of them- we are losing many things in our lives.
So, just move on because they are the ones who are left behind.

In this life, there are many irritating characteristics of people:
(and some people have all of these irritating characteristics in themselves)
1. double-faced
this kind of person is the one who backstab you and pretend to act nicely in front of you.
You feel like punching his face but you should not because you know you are better than him.

2. racist
we always think that racism only happens in a particular situation.
However, it is not, there are people who are racist about nationality.
Such an embarrassing creature! You only can realize this when you become the subject of the racism. For my case, it is an ironic. Dont ask me why, because I know that kind of person is a loser.

3. thirst of power and respect
This characteristic is quite subtle so you need to be more careful with this type. They often brag about themselves or their work. This is to show that he has done something very brilliant. The others agreed but not until he bragged about it. So, in order to solve this kind of problem: just stay humble because you know his head is just too big.
However, this kind might bring consequences like consuming your time because he thinks he is so excellent and important so that he can order you with anything he wants without looking at the condition.

In addition, when you feel lonely:
go watch a movie with friends that can make you better - get some inspirations because movies are great! - there are many good messages that are conveyed across to us! it is just whether you can feel and see them.

A note for my friend:
remember that a stead is only one.
and friends are unlimited.
when you have chosen the only one and neglecting the unlimited ones, you are actually making a long-term decision. you have lost our respects, our words are nothing to you.
People say, the whole world is only for the couple when they fall in love. It is true because you are living in the alien world while the rest are still having a normal life in this normal world.

It is like what my gan kor said long long time ago:
friends are like flowers. they are living thing. you can choose to water the flower or just neglect the flower. But, remember that once the flower withered, you cant reincarnate them- you have lost the trust of a friend. For me, it is a struggle for me to keep all these flowers- i am trying to but it is a difficult thing to me.

To all my flowers: i am sorry. forgive me.